Gift yourself in your loved ones life

Inspired by the book 'unposted letters' written by mahatria R.A.

People feel your love not by what u are with them, but what they can be with you.
Everyone of us expect unconditional love. We all feel to be loved with all our faults .We want our loved ones to accept the way we are. Yes, all agreed but these are not the expectations from our loved ones these are from the one with whom  we share a relationship. Relationship itself is a wider term but  used for temporary love syndrome. Now-a-days people don't need love for healing heart but a hallow relationship to dump their frustration. People don't search a friend but a person for just to be with. They end up doing everything for that fake relationship and for their love for life they find it a repetitive task. One may not have a successful relationship, doesn't matter but avoid switching over..switching over relationships again and again is like getting hit by X-rays over and over ending up burning skin tissues.

We see our level of satisfaction when we are with someone and when things don't workout as we thought we breakup. While the real love test is in not being satisfied from others but being able to cross all level of dissatisfaction together. People have wrong belief of having a positive relationship status for reducing the frustration level however, fact is breakups and fake relationships are the reasons for increasing frustration.

Even though u have a good love life and you have been in true relationship so far, maintaining the same chemistry throughout your life gets difficult for people. Reason being, people end up doing everything in their initial exciting years and sharing every little thing that leaves no room for them to explore their relationship in future years. Remember what can grow like a tree shouldn't die like a plant. Its always better if few things remain unsaid. Relationship should be transparent and not naked.

Life is worth living with someone we truly love and not with one whom we know completely. Its about growing together not outgrowing one another. People usually say 'we are waiting for that special one in our life'.Rather waiting for a right person in your life try becoming the right one. Make yourself so worthy that you gift yourself in someone's life.

Life is in living Moments...

Life is so unpredictable...and it should be ; you never know where you will stand the next moment, what position u will be in, whether you will be able to live your life the way u thought..or u will stand loosing it all..People wait for a right time to Enjoy the moment  and right time is not defined but they don't understand; rather waiting for a right moment to be happy in..get in to the time and enjoy the moment. You always dont need the reason of not  having  moments in your life that can be enjoyed One can enjoy Beautiful moments created by  others by living it with them. 

People who think they will reach their destination  and then relax; it will be that point for them to just sit and Enjoy; once they achieve their goals all their problems will be solved automatically are not living but running. Running to achieve their goals, destination,aim...etc. No doubt life is meant to be focused but it's not the only thing that life means...while you are running for your destination you are missing out the real life .you will surely reach where you are supposed to be and at the time you are destined to;  but after some point you will face same or even higher level of dissatisfaction; and you end up cursing yourself for not doing up-to-the mark. while the reason for your dissatisfaction would be Over excitement not matching with the time.

 Deep down in your heart everyone is aware of the fact that  things come to us when they are destined to, we are only suppose to work on it till we get the end result no matter whatever it is.That doesn't mean we cant stop for a while and feel the moment . We are too focused to run that we don't care to stop and realize beautiful moments come across your way and not in the end. you need to stop and celebrate, learn if you fail, get up if you fall, but take a stop.It is also necessary to change the game plan. you cant work on same plan if you fail in it once. You need to change the outlook.And for that you need to take a break.

Life is in  living the moments while you travel your way to destination not after that.nor life ends where you stop; it goes on. No one can sit and Enjoy whole life without doing anything on the fact that he once achieved his goals and purpose of his life is served.

Purpose of life is itself having purpose in life and not short term goals.

Life is too long to be satisfied by just hitting one six; hit a century,

Life is too short to just run and wait for that moment to enjoy which might have lost while u were running. Live every moment.